Saturday, July 11, 2009

Put That On Everything!

So, you're parents have tried everything to the best of their ability to ensure that you have a better life then what they had. They've tried everything in the book, from yelling, grounding for days, and even beatens. As the years go by and as you grow older, you watch as your mother and father get through life together(unlike other families who only have one parent), you like what you see and wish you can share that same type of life style when you are old enough to start on your own family. You eventually grow up into your 20's to be a successful career women. At this age your doing what any other women would be doing which is partying and looking for that right somebody. So eventually you do meet a guy, your feeling him, hes feeling you, and obviously then you want to start taking it more serious, then he does(cuz guyz are soo sometimish these days). So later down the line you become pregnant, and you have to work like crazy to make sure you have enough money for when the baby comes. Your pregnant so at times your gonna feel tired right?, so you let your "boyfriend" use the car sometimes so he can do his thing you know (I wonder who hes bringing up in the car lol). One day your feeling hungry, but not just anything your having a craving for mcdonalds, your "boyfriend" has the car so you call him and ask him if he can stop and buy it for you on his way there, and he has the nerve to tell you he can't do it. You dont get mad you decide to suck it up and just drop it because you dont want to argue. Everything is goin good now for the next few months(I think)
You guys have the baby now everyone is happy. Hes happy, your more happier then ever.

You continue to let you "boyfriend" use the car while your home watching the baby with nothing to do. So one particular day, you let him use the car, but now you need to use it, so you call him up to see how long he is going to be, and he has the nerve to start yelling at you saying " what do you want, why are you running me down, give me some space" So you just quickly try to explain to him why you were calling(like is it not your car, HELLO!)
You start crying ALOT, and tell somebody about it, and the advice they give you is "Dont chase after no man!"
So once again you drop it, and let it slide, and continue loving this man.

What would you do in this situation?!?!?!
give me your answers and tomrrow I will finish what happens next.

4 comments:

  1. first of all he needs to be home with you and the baby so you can all bond as a family!! yes everyone needs space thats undertandable but for him to be yelling at YOU over YOUR car....no way...do not tolerate that!!! i can also understand you not wanting to argue but ur voice and feelings need to be heard unless he will continue to use and abuse the privlege of having YOURRR car!!!

    Kiyyah of *AF* girls
    www.theafgirls.com

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  2. okay this chick needs to kick him out- kick him ou. how DARE he talk to the woman who jsut gave birth to his seed in that manner?!... the nerrvv!
    oh lawd... no no she needs to sit him down and talk to him camly n tell him the deal... cuz she should not be havin to deal with that bs.

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  3. maybe he's going thru the new baby phase... like the new baby and the idea of all this togetherness is freakin him out? just my opinion...

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