Mind Games

I have a friend, and she has been dating this guy for a few months. Everythin is goin criss... just a few bumps in the road.. (road blocks) LOL ... she found earrings who were not hers in his room, and this guy will go a day ...and sometimes two days with out callin/textin her. So when she asked him about the earings, he says "They are yours?!".... LOL riiiight ! So, then he continues to say how they are his momz, or from his ex--cuz "thats the kidna stuff that gets left behind here". Nigga i don't give a fuck! Clean out ur old girls shit... fa real. On the other hand she can't shake this feeling that mayb he is actually tellin the truth. Now, what kinda man will go a day or two without talkin to their woman. "I miss you" he says... riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight if you did, then when i text you, you would actually answer. & when he don't answer- heaven forbid she should try to call him... cuz he won't pick up. Nor will he call her the next day--- he may send a text. & the funny thing is that when she tries to tell him how she feels, he just acts nonchalount- like it don't phase him that his girl is feelin ways. It is not hard to pick up your phone twice a day to tell your girl how your day is goin--& see how hers is goin. Why are guys such jerks. & why do us women love to do this to ourselves?

whos real.................

excuse the spelling mistakes and the title. i'm drunk and its 5:25 in the morning.

who's real, who's fake

i dunno whose gone thru this before, but i've been here a few times..........

i met this guy a while back and everything seemed cool ya kno. he knew what i wanted in the "relationship" and vise versa. at least thats what i thought. i told this guy it was purely sexual, but as the weeks went by he started cathing feelings. BOOOOO.

now, i had my heart broken once and i am not about to let it happen again. so i let this guy keep seeing me until i couldn't take the lovey dovey shit no more. i let things cool down to the point where he was calling me down, wanting to se me. i eventually went cuz the dick was real good. stupid me right, cuz why did his "baby momz" call me the other day. i was shocked and amazed to here her voice on my celly.

so here is the bottom line to the story............... do i keep seeingthis guy, or should i cut him loose??? he is moving loose by not handling his AFFAIRS properly and i don't feel like changin my number again

i would love to hear your thoughts, holla back

Nosey Are We???

Ladies, we've all felt the urge or overwhelming curiosity to see just what and who it is your man is texting and emailing. But does that give you the right to SNOOP? It's one thing to investigate suspect behavior, but to allow your curiosity or insecurities get the best of your only breeds havoc within your partnership. And, and as a rule, once you violate a man's trust it's nearly impossible to recover. So is it WORTH CONFRONTING him about a woman on his phone or email inviting him to dinner, who turns out to be his cousin he hardly keeps in touch with? Or to take it a step further, make an ass out of yourself by calling random women in his phone who are in no way a threat to you, is it really worth it? Is it okay to SNOOP through his stuff OR are you opening a door you may not be able to close?

RING THE ALARM!!

When me and my girls get together and hang out we always love to catch up on life and talk about our boy problems. The number one thing we always talk about is BOYZ, we feel that Toronto is lacking when it comes to men.

* Guys don't want to pay for the first meal anymore
* Guys no longer call to see if you got home safely
* Guys don't want to invest their time
* Guys can no longer recognize a WOMEN,not all girls are katties
* They don't have real jobs
* Theres always another girl on the side

Its so hard to find the right guy these days. The guys in Toronto should get it together and . smarten up, and realize that its not only about them, there are other human beings in this world too you know, and by other human beings I mean women. When you do find that good man, ladies just make sure you dont let him go that easy,because it will be hard to come across another good one. Put work into it because every relationship requires work and if your not willing to put in the work then you shouldn't be in a relationship.

Babies are no fashon!

Ok, so I have to get this off my chest. Why are there so many people poppin out kids these days when they can not take care of themselves- let alone another living person. Its not a fad people, its REALLY SCARY!
Kids are cute, funny, n oh so hugable but also they are messy, loud, smelly and costly$$$!
Unless you have a CAREER, and someone around to help you out with the noisy lil fucker,( lol ) you will be pullin out ya hair and be speaking 'babytalk' to your girlfriends.
Women, please, focous on work and building your life first before you want to bring a new one into this world. How about this, if you are thinking of havin a kid, why not try getting a puppy. Not a dog, but a puppy. Puppies are just like babies. They need CONSTANT 24/7 supervision & attention. If you can handel a puppy alone, then MAYBE you can THINK about havin a baby. But make sure you realize that a baby, you cna not lock it in a cage n leave for hrs on end- leavin it with just a bown of water and some bones lieing round. A baby is by your side forever. There is no puttin yourself first, everythin goes towards the baby, and if your lucky, after your spend all your money, time, energy, and love on the baby.... then you still may have somethin for yourself. If your not K.O by that time.

enjoy!

p.S... you can kiss goodbye having a life outside of baby classes, and diper rashes and doctors appointment. You life for the next five to six years is ALL ABOUT THE BABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABYBABY BABY BABY BABY BABY BABY

taged to the blog below...

apparently... he never stole shoes it was all a big misunderstanding... lol i guess no one knows besides him.

lie= belief?

So my girl talked to her man FINALLY....and she decided to stay with the guy because today mix up was with the cops- dude got arrested for "stealing shoes". LMAO..... but they are working it out and hopefully things will get better for her and him.

Fed Up

I have a friend who has made up excuses -upon excuses for her "man". They have been dating each other for a few months, talkin for a lil longer B4 dating -- basically they rushed into things. But of course things were great in the start & later in the sac..and baby girl wanted to give time to this relationship n see where it goes. Now ladies, when I said "man" in the beginning, I really ment BOY. Because this dudes st8 up BIG BOY tryin to be BIG MAN. ha! Had her fooled. But not us, not her girls. So a short outline of their relationship was: He lived an hour or so bus ride away, he hated talkin on the phone and wanted to just text. So she delt with the non often phone calls & Settled for textin her boo. At that time homegirl had her job down by his ways so see would see him often n spend tha night. But things with his famz n her didnt quite mesh at first cuz mamma luvd off his EX...n then things went really sour with her n his momz cuz she&he was loud.;) so0oo0o0oo0 now pass a few weeks in, momma dukes has a meltdown n kicks my girl out at 3 am. So now, after all this time her man still dosen't like to call her-- even thou she has told him a few times. So she keeps up with it cuz she really likes him ... n the sex is great :) So now my girl looses her job n is not wantin to go bak to his yawd cuz of the sticky situation. Her man NEVER ever came once down to her place--cuz he dosen't wanna.. like WTF is up with that. So he finially says he wants to come down n see his girl... he dosent show. He floped on her a few times giving her one excsuse aafter another. & for a min she would let them slide.. Till today..he was saposed to come down ..again but this time dosent call or return calls bak to let her know if he is still commming. Dude dosen't answer when she calls... and has not yet. At first she was mad, but really she just wantes to know if he is ok.. I could care less... he is a dumb cunt. DUDE ST8 UP DITCHED HIS GF today..AGAIN. So she FINIALLY realized-- no woman who is real n st8 up with a dude needs to be dissrespected and misstreated in this way. She was better off being single... seemd more happier too. This guy played with her honesty, and cuz she liked him she gave him the benifit of the doubt. She felt he was cheating, & when she asked him... he denied it..& with no real proof she felt she owed it to believe him. But when a man can't make his woman a PRIORITY HE HAS NO RIGHT STRINGING HER ALONG. So I told her, hun, why is he a priority, when you are nothing but an option?. & she had enough. I feel she will be strong to cut this goof boy outta her life cuz baby girl is tooo amazing and deserves A LOT better. She deserves a MAN & not a boy who thinks he can.
.arrrghhh.....boys! good riddance.

The Mind Of A Powerful Woman........( qotes Avis Pope)

A powerful woman approaches each task with a positive attitude. 

 A powerful woman will encourage you and nurture your talent. 

 The encouragement of a true friend adds value to the life of a powerful woman. 

 Powerful women can find the will to get up when they have fallen down. 

 A powerful women is confident that her power gets better with age just like a fine wine. 

 A powerful woman gives respect to others and receives respect in return. 

 Powerful women have an alluring aura, which pulls people in their direction. 

 It is common for a powerful woman to have dream visions. 

 Powerful women will do what they must do even on days when they don’t feel like it. 

Powerful women have a personal relationship with God through prayer and supplication.

 Powerful women are blessed and highly favored because they put God first in their lives.... Bye (Avis Pope) ENCOURAGE DEM!

Grown n Sexy Advise

Hey everybody, Im gonna try somethin new aside from mouthing off my opinion about random things. I'm gonna let YOU...yes YOU the readers post or send questions to me, and Ill be glad to share my advise/talk about ur situation. Annomous or not. We can keep a secret. ;) To do so, all you need to do is ask me a question(s) in the comment box under this post. & Keep a look out for my reply :)
xoxo

Time To Do You!

For some reason these days people are so afraid to do what they feel they were born to do, because of the haters, and the thought of failing, but how are we all suppose to progress and be the successful people we are supposed to be if everything we put our minds to people want to shut us down and make us feel less of a person. Mean while those people who are having fun laughing at us and putting us down are progressing and being the successful person they can be. I think its about time to put our minds on our money and our money on or minds, and not worry about the haters because in the end, they'll be working for us getting our coffee. And if we dont it could be the other way around. So let the haters keep hating and just know that the more haters you have then the more you know that you must be doing something right.

All My Single Ladies (put ya hands up)

Ladies this is the new year, We dont need BOYS, I thought thats why we spent all those years fighting for our rights,and so we can be looked at like people too, also so we can gain our own independence. We can be career driven, sexy, spontanious fun women. We dont just need to be with that one man that we feel we cant live without, because when hes ready to go he'll be gone and some of us ladies make that bring you down, and make you feel like you cant go on in life, when in reality we shouldn't have to feel like that. Life is way tooo short to waste your life on one guy that doesnt wan to be with you. Its ok to be hurt for a second of course, but dont dwell on it, just brush it off, call up your girls go clubbin and move on to the next, or just move on with your life.
I am sick of the stigma that socitey n men have put on us. "If your a girl and have many sexual partners through out ur life, your concidered a whore." But with men, Its just another normal things that happens in life. HA! Do you mamma, if you don't wanna get lied to and unnessisarly hurt by a man, then just focus on makin ya money, pull out ur freakum dress and go partyin with ya girls ;) n do you, with out a care in the world, THATS SMART! This way aint no man gettin u down, and off track from YOUR life. So stay strong all single ladies and know there aint nothing wrong with being single and when the right person is supposed to come around he will and plllzzz plllzzzz do not rush it! Just let things happen the way they are supposed to happen.

SEX: Do's and Dont'

This one is to the BOYS, we're gonna help you out in knowing how to satisfy your boo ;)...makin u tha Man.

DO'S

1. Set the mood - Music, candles, soft light, small things to show you appreciate her.
2. Foreplay- Touch her face, look into her eyes before you go in for the kiss, and while kissing her your gonna caress her body. Once you guys come up for air, your gonna start kissing her ear lobe, and whispering sweet nothings into her ear, then you start to kiss her neck and bite it a little ;) moving down to her collar bone. At this point your hands are gonna unhook her bra(scroll down for a demo), once thats outta the way you cup the breast to your face and you have a taste. At this point your hand are goin to be unbuttoning her pants make sure you keep eye contact and give her a sweet smile. you start kissing her stomach while taking off her pants and then your hands go in between her legs and you gently pet her kitty. You rub it nice and slow, until she takes off your pants and underwear.
3. SEX- Fellas you dont need to go for 5 hours but an hour and a half is just enough time to get through me rocking your world and you loving it. You must do different positions and give it to us right or dont give it to us at all.

DONT'S

1. Do not tell her you wanna give it to her like a high class hooker. Just say she looks nice
2. No corny, cheesey pick up lines EX: So did it hurt... when you dropped out of heaven
3. When you see a girl walking down the street dont make a seen by telling her, her walk is worth alot of money, thats trashy not classy.
4. Know how too KISS, Not too much tongue(In the beggining you want to keep things light and passionate). When french kissing dont suffocate her, just massage her tongue with yours.
5. Dont give her a quarter size hickey on her neck(what are in seventh grade?)
6. When caressing her boobs dont squeeze them like stress balls.(gently massage them and place your mouth on them, and you dont wanna bite too hard and you dont wanna bite too little)
7. At this point your hand is goin to petting her kitty cat, dont rub the clit all fast and furious (you wanna take things nice and slow, not too slow though)
8. Once you feel her rhythm and move with her and eventually move things from first gear to fith gear. ;)
9. AND NO QUICKIES!!!! If u have not mastered the art of tantric sex, then just beat off a few before sex....n ull go for ever;)
10. Always make her cum b4 you do. Preferable a few times lol...but thats for the men...not boys.