Say What You Mean

"I'll call you later" he said. Ha! Later has come and long gone, and I sit here staring at my phone. :( What kinda relationship am I in? He says to text him, call him... but what is the use when you get no response?! Sometimes hours will go by with no communication. Now im not one of those begging girls, but I am a woman, and we need attention. I ain't trying to have hour long convos... but a bitch misses his voice sometimes and it would be a nice surprise if a nigga would call once or twice just to say hi. Just to say he misses me and is thinkin about me. But NOOOOO .... boys are too stubborn and too sometimesish. But as soon as us women switch it up and dont call them back, or dont text them back right away, they will go off! Like "Yo I told you to call me....yeah ? yeah? aiight w/e!"
Nahmean?....so dubble stardard. Little things like this can make or break a relationship, espicially in it early stages. I mean if my "man" sayS he is gonna call I expect a fuckin call. Little shit like this is what makes the difference in a relationship. Women need the little things more than the big thangs. We dont care if you take us out a few times a week, or buy us randome shit..... we want QT(quality time)- Cute lil notes(texts) a call here or there outta tha blue to say hi, i miss you, thinkin of you... xoxo... SHIT AINT HARD --GET IT TOGETHER! Call me old fashon, when you are in a relationship both of you have to make compramises to keep the other happy. I like being a priority in my mans life, not an option. So to all tha BOYS out there(tryin to be men....) SAY WHAT YOU MEAN! And if you aint gonna do somthin then dont say you will. Come Correct! All you gotta do is come REAL!

Word to the Wise

in this day and age us women have to smarten up. Is it just me or do women rush into things these days. Especially sex. I mean, you meet a guy and you like him fair enough. But do not fuck him on the first date.. better yet, why not wait until he shows you some honesty, realness, and respect. All that sweet talk in the beginning is jsut to get into your pants, and hell if you let him get the goddies that quick, then why bother? The dude will laugh and see you as an easy lay. There is no respect or integraty in that. You gotta learn how to play them at their own game. BUT dont get it twisted, im all for being st8up, but you can't make it so easy for them. *hint* THEY LIKE A CHALLANGE. But you don't want to be a prude either. Give a lil, but ALWAYS keep him guessing. That way he will take you seriouslly, respect, and he will always be back for more. When yall do knock boots, 'haaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyy ;)' Take it from me, it will be "WELL WOTH THE WAIT." Time builds excitement, anticipation, and makes the bond grow.

Its not a DRUG!

Okay, so I have a pet peeve of mine. I am a ganja queen. MJ and I have been together since 1998! She is a plant people! Shes grown outta di ground we walk on. If you happen to set it on fire, prepare to get lifted :) A drug is something that you gotta do shit to chemically. You gotta add bakin soda, water, stir it up.. I dont know the recipe im just sayin...... Asprin is a drug and it is perfactly legal but if you take 13 of them that is the last headache u'll eva have. but MJ.... no no u can smoke smoke smoke.. and all that will happen really is the person will look like they dead. They aint dead u idiot. They are just asleep. Watch, 30 min later, he/she is gonna wake up and eat out ya whole damn fridge. Theres just 3 side affetcts to Mj- Hungry, Happy and Sleepy. :)

Good Advise

If you really have a passion 4 something and are confident in what your doing, keep on doing it and don't give up. You shouldn't be forced to do anythin you don't wanna do. You might feel less angry later on, but then again u might wanna move on you do what u gotta do, don't care about opinions from others and live your life! :-)

Do You Know How To Take One Off??

In The Dark

Have you ever met a guy that you fell strongly in love with? You put all your effort and time into this guy,and he also is showing you that he strongly cares about you too. You think eveything is good between you two, you've found the best guy out there. And then all of a sudden out of nowhere you do something he doesnt like and he HITS you, you dont know what to do, so you stay with him. Now every other week hes hitting you, and you STILL stay, once every week hes hitting you and you STILL stay. You keep this secret from everyone around because you dont know what they are going to say or do, and you dont want to leave this guy because you love him and you now just found out your pregnant, and everyone around you really like this guy, so you feel like you should stay in the relationship. The hitting continues and you've had your child now. And because you've had you're child you now feel alot more mature and you feel like you've seen the light and you now know you need to do better, not only for you but your child also. You FINALLY break free from that horrible relationship, but all you can do is bawl your eyes out you love this man still sooooo deeply, but you have to do what you have to do right?...what would you do?...go back to him just for the child....go back to him just because you really want to?.....Dont go back to him but stay friends?.......or dont go back to him and never talk to him ever again??

Dissappeared into thin air

So, this is for my ladies who are holding down their hustlers. Ladies, when you and ya man get into it, don't let him talk to you like you are a bucket. "NO! I am not that trick." & Fellaz, we know you are on pins and needles with the strees and how FUCKED UP they are. (the po-po don't make it any easier) but DAMN, when you have a famz, spend some Q.T(quality time) with them. Show them some love. And not the kinda love like chris did to rhianna. You need to leave the work life at the door, and come home and STAY home with ya wife n kid. We know you have to make money, but how about having a 'wing man' who takes over the chops when you are unavailable?! Or atleast till the break of dawn, cuz your wife hates HATES being left in the middle of the night for a quick buck.
If you know your always out on tha road, and wifey is takin care of your kid, do not go O.T and not tell anyone(wifey). OK! That is just a big NO NO!

Is this really you?

Ever surf the internet and some how found love. Your talkin to this person day in and day out, days turn into weeks, weeks turn into months. You've developed a comfort level with this person, and then you realize WE HAVE NEVER MET!!!. What do you do? You decide you wanna talk to him about meeting up, and everytime theres a new excuse. ex: I had work, or I had to take care of my "son", or I left my phone at home...shit like that you get da picture. The interagation continues, and eventually the phone calls get less and less with every passing day, but you seem to not wanna give up on him because of "love". HA!. Eventually the phone calls come to a hault, you havent talk to this guy in weeks. Now all you can think of is, was he who he really said he was?.....................................

Why not call?

So, this one I know a lot of ladies are gonna feel me on this. Ladies, what is with our "men" today?
I'm talking bout the dude does not have the courtesy to call his girl the whole day. But that nigga says "text me baby". LOL! FUCK THAT! Im the type who aint tryin to stay on the phone for hours on end...(plz we all got shit to do) but, will it really kill u to talk to ya women for 10 min at the end of the night?...I guess soo *Sigh*

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