Happy Birthday MJ

August 29 would have been Michael Jackson's 51st birthday, yet his tragic death prevented that from happening. The young performer was crowned the King of Pop and later became a living legend who was both talented and troubled. He experienced the greatest fame and fortune, but compulsiveness and insecurity tormented him for most of his life.

R.I.P

Feelin this get up.

Beyonce recieving women of the year award!

“Beyoncé is multi-platinum artist and a multi-talented woman who clearly embodies the qualities of excellence and achievement that the Billboard Woman Of The Year Award was created to honor,” said Bill Werde, Billboard’s Editorial Director, about Beyoncé, who is the only performer in the 51-year history of the Billboard Hot 100 to top the chart for 10 weeks or more with a group and as a solo artist. “She has not only influenced pop culture
with her hit songs and signature dance moves, but has inspired women everywhere with her unique style, business savvy and dedication to charitable causes.”

Rihanna out and about while chris was being sentenced!

I love the bracelet and the shoes!!

MY SONG OF THE DAY!

"Scared Of Lonely"

I'm in this fight, and I'm swinging and my arms are getting tired

It's hard, I'm trying to beat this emptiness but I'm running out of time

I'm sinking in the sand, and I can barely stand

I'm lost in this dream, I need you to hold me

I'm scared of lonely

I try to be patient, but I'm hurting deep inside

And I can't keep waiting, I need comfort late at night

And I can't find my way, won't you lead me home

Cause I'm lost in this dream, I need you to hold me

I'm scared of lonely

And I'm scared of being the only shadow I see along the wall

And I'm scared the only heartbeat I hear beating is my own

And I'm scared of being alone

I can't seem to breathe when I am lost in this dream, I need you to hold me

I'm scared of lonely

I'm scared of lonely.....I cry at night, 'cause my baby's too far to be by my side

To wipe away these tears of mine, so I hold my pillow tight

To imagine you would stretch your hand looking for mine'

Cause I'm lost in this dream , I need you to hold me

I'm scared of lonely

And I'm scared of being the only shadow I see along the wall

And I'm scared the only heartbeat I hear beating is my own

And I'm scared of being alone

I can't seem to breathe when I am lost in this dream, I need you to hold me

I need your strength when nobody is around'

Cause I'm tired of this emptiness, I think I'm drowningI can't be lonely no more

Cause I'm lost in this dream, I need you to hold me

I'm scared of lonely

And I'm scared of being the only shadow I see along the wall

And I'm scared the only heartbeat I hear beating is my own

And I'm scared of being alone

I can't seem to breathe when I am lost in this dream, I need you to hold me

I'm scared of lonely

I'm scared of lonely.....

I AM SOOO FEELING THIS SONG TODAY!

The 3 L's

LIVE.LOVE.LIFE.

Enjoy life, don't let nobody bring you down. Achieve everything thats needed to be achieved in your life. Don't take everything so serious, and don't be so hard on others. Live your life the way you want to live it. Laugh at all the small things. And all the big things, talk it through with someone and laugh later.Life is WAY to short to dweall on the small things.

When you see someone or something you dont like dont just judge right off the bat. I mean theres nothing wrong with stating your opinion at all, but people now a days get extra and feel the need to spread it around and gossip to everyone about it 24/7, sometimes you just have to learn to let things slide. State your opinion and keep it moving. Dont we have bigger and better things that we should be doing with our lives?

Its 2009 going on 2010
ITS TIME TO MAKE A CHANGE!


If You Wanna Make The WorldA Better Place
Take A Look At Yourself AndThen Make A Change
I'm Starting With The Man InThe Mirror
~MICHEAL JACKSON

I LOVE THESE PICTURES!!

3 Ways to handle lifes UNKNOWN

It may sound like a cliche, but uncertainty is a part of life. Even before these hard economic times, it was possible to unexpectedly lose a job, suffer a breakup or to get into an accident. That's because there are no guarantees in life!
As terrifying as that can seem, it's also what allows us to reach outside the status quo and shoot for the stars - even if the odds are stacked against us. We all create our own destinies, whether they come to us in exactly the form we're expecting, or not.

Try this three-step approach to tackling life's uncertainties:

1. You can't know everything

If we knew every single little thing awaiting us around the corner, life would be unbearably dull. Yet by changing the way you see life's curveballs, you can alter how you handle them. So, from now on, instead of worrying about events you can't foresee - or letting those that occur send you into a prolonged state of shock and immobility - try to see unexpected events as opportunities. Perhaps getting laid off will put you in a position to go back to school and find a job you like better - or make more money in. Maybe getting dumped is a chance to reconnect with yourself and your deepest desires, before finding a mate who is suited to a more fully realized you. Seemingly bad things often wind up teaching us valuable lessons and setting us on the paths we should have been on in the first place.
Likewise, even in "good" times, don't let fear of the unknown get in the way of going after your goals.

2. Best and worst

When faced with uncertain outcomes, many of us get paralyzed. After all, without knowing what to expect, it's best to keep a low profile and do nothing, right? Wrong! In times of flux (and any time, really), the best way to combat your anxiety is to be active. If you're having trouble knowing how to act in any given situation (say, whether to make a change or stay put), why not ask yourself the same questions about the alternative choice? What's the best that can happen if you do what you're considering and - and what's the worst? Now see how your answers compare.

3. Baby steps

Often we make the mistake of thinking that huge changes are required to make progress in life. Not so. In fact, by taking small, active steps toward a larger goal, we make achieving it more likely by giving ourselves the opportunity to reposition and regroup if things don't go our way. Whether it's trying a class before enrolling in a program, or asking for a raise before looking for a better-paying job in a field you're less interested in, one thing's for certain - doing nothing definitely won't get you where you want to go. Doing something just might make a difference.

She Said: Abuse, How Much is Too Much?

It’s not the easiest topic to discuss, but it’s not being talked about enough. The brutal reality is that victims of abuse are around us all the time. Though she may not wear the scars of physical manhandling, she may be suffering abuse that cuts just as deep as a blow to the jaw. Abuse comes in many forms, and unless outwardly obvious, it can be the culprit of unhealthy relationships. For some women, all it takes is a man to look like he has the potential to strike and it’s splitsville, forever. For others, it may not be as easy and, unfortunately, may lead to physical violence. But according to the women we spoke with, in order for one to stay in such a dangerous situation, more often than not, she’s been mentally beaten by verbal abuse so badly, she’s convinced she has nowhere to go. So, are there signs or red flags before arguments escalate to an unfair fight between a man and woman? How much is too much? When is it time to leave?