Is It Lust or Love?

Okay ladies, we've all had that guy we'd love to let go, but simply cannot because he puts it on you so good. Seldom do we find the guy who is well established, well equipped and faithful. In your head, you can think of so many reasons and ways you love this man, starting with his bedroom skills. But in other ways, he is no good for you. Maybe he has no ambition and is perfectly content with the dead end job he's been working for ions. Maybe in your heart you know he's not the one, and your family would be less than overjoyed to see you take the plunge with him. Is it because ultimately you know the "love" you share is forbidden and the thrill is in the rebellion? Can you work through detrimental differences because you love him so much, or do you know in your heart you two won't last? Can the relationship stand on its own without sex? Can you really picture yourself with this man outside of the bedroom? Or, simply put, does the physical trump sensical???