Saturday, October 10, 2009

Song Of The Day!

HELLO
By: Beyonce
Oh!
Oh oh, oh oh oh oh......
I love to see you walk into the room
Body shining lighting up the place
And when you talk, everybody stops
Cause they know you know just what to say
And the way that you protect your friends
Baby, I respect you for that
And when you grow, you take everyone you love along
I love that you don't fly me away
Don't need to buy a diamond key to unlock my heart
You shelter my soul
You're my fire when I'm cold
I want you to know
You had me at hello
Hello
Hello
You had me at hello
Hello
Hello
It was many years ago
Baby when you
Stole my cool
Cause you had me at hello
Hello
Hello, oh oh oh oh oh
I get so excited when you travel with me
Baby, while I'm on my grind
And never would I ever let my hustle
Come between me and my family time
You keep me humble out of this hype
Cause you know there's more to life
If I need you, you will be here
You will make the sacrifice
Don't fly me away
Don't need to buy a diamond key to unlock my heart
You shelter my soul
You're my fire when I'm cold
Just want you to know
You had me at hello
Hello
Hello
You had me at hello
Hello
Hello
It was many years ago
Baby when you
Stole my cool
Cause you had me at hello
Hello
Hello, oh oh oh oh oh
Gotta feel you and be near you
You're the air that I breathe to survive
Gotta hold you, wanna show you
That without you my sun doesn't shine
You don't have to try so hard for me to love you
Boy, without you my life just ain't the same
You don't have to try so hard for me to love you
You had me at hello!
You had me at hello
Hello
Hello
You had me at hello
Hello
Hello
It was many years ago
Baby when you
Stole my cool
Cause you had me at hello
Hello
Hello, oh oh oh oh oh
It was many years ago
Baby when you
Stole my cool
You had me at hello
Hello

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Friends with benefits



For some people,

a "friends with benefits" arrangement is simply a way to release sexual frustration. For others, it offers sexual companionship and affection, without the time and energy involved in a more serious love relationship.


"Friends with benefits" defines the relationship as physical, with no romantic strings attached. Of course, all relationships have strings attached - but in this type of arrangement you can't always tell what they are. If you're trying to decide whether you can handle this kind of arrangement, ask yourself these five questions:


1. Am I being honest with myself?

Your reasons for choosing a "friends with benefits" relationship are your own - just make sure you really understand what they are. Are you sure you don't want commitment, or are you just saying that because your partner isn't looking for a commitment? Are you really too busy to date, or are you simply afraid of getting hurt?


2. Am I being honest with my partner?

If you want to be "friends with benefits," you have to be completely honest in communicating that to your partner. Don't say "things are complicated." Don't say "I don't know what I want." Don't say "I'm confused." Those are all lies. You know what you want, and it's not that complicated: sex without a relationship or much responsibility or accountability. So just say, "I want sex without a relationship."


3. Is my partner being honest?

Of course, being honest with yourself and your partner doesn't completely absolve you of responsibility. Even if you're honest and clear about your intentions, your partner may continue to hope that one day you'll change your mind and be open to a committed relationship. It's easy to let yourself off the hook by saying you were honest.


4. Am I healthy?

Some people choose "friends with benefits" situations because they want to enjoy sex without the STD dangers that come with casual sex. The logic is that your partner is a friend, so you'll feel safer knowing their sexual history. But this false sense of security may end up putting you at even greater risk. Because you "know" your partner, you might become less careful about using condoms and birth control - yet "friends with benefits" situations are rarely monogamous.


5. Am I happy?

At the end of the day, no one can tell you whether you can handle being "friends with benefits." The best you can do is enter the relationship with honest, realistic expectations and keep constant tabs on how you're feeling. Being "friends with benefits" won't feel like the magic of real love - but if you're honest with yourself and your partner, it might still help you to be happy in the here-and-now.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Song Of The Day!

By: Deborah Cox
It’s your life
Thing may not always go right, for you
In those times
Just leave it behind
Cause sometimes you gotta play the game
Just to survive
Without losing yourself
It’s a fight, it’s true
It takes time
Don’t have all the answers
No matter how hard it gets
Hold on to what’s inside
[CHORUS]
Don’t never let nobody bring you down girl
Don’t never let nobody tear your world apart
Look in the mirror and see who you are
Beautiful U R
In the dark
The paint chips have waited your heart
So deep
Can’t you see
See the light in the distance
Open up your eyes, look, look to the sky
And believe
There’s much more to life when you free
That’s the key
And in time
You will find all the answers
Don’t have to loose your pride
Hold on to what’s inside
[CHORUS]
Don’t never let nobody bring you down girl
Don’t never let nobody tear your world apart
Look in the mirror and see who you are
Beautiful U R
Don’t never let nobody bring you down girl
Don’t never let nobody tear your world apart
Look in the mirror and see who you are
Beautiful U R
Don’t care what they say anymore
There’s no time to be insecure
I leave it all at the door
She staring at him in the face
She’s taking it day by day
I’m finally on my way
[CHORUS]
Don’t never let nobody bring you down girl
Don’t never let nobody tear your world apart
Look in the mirror and see who you are
Beautiful U R
Don’t never let nobody bring you down girl
Don’t never let nobody tear your world apart
Look in the mirror and see who you are
Beautiful U R

Saturday, October 3, 2009

Look at that bump!

CHRISTINA MILLIANS BABY BUMP!
OH AND I LUV THE SHOES!!!!