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aarrrghhH!!!!!! life is so complex as it is, why do women put ourselves out there and add on the unnecessary stress of relationships? If one is in a relationship act accordingly! I have a friend who has been dating this guy for a few months. Now he is very honest(sometimes too honest) so she asked him about carabanna. He just said he would be rollin out with his friends- & had no intention of havin her with him. She felt ways(who wouldent) but she brused it off-- and THOUGHT TO HERSELF"fine, if he wants to go with his boys ill go with my girls". & her courious nature is such-that she wondered if he would be dancing on females at carabanna. "Yes" he said. WHAT THEEEE??!!!..... why are u in a relationship if u wanna go n dance up on other girls, that is what u do when u are single. Not committed!.....ARRRGHHH.. so he has the nerve to call my girl out n say that when she goes clubbin/carabanna... she probablly dances with guys and its fine. He said FINE! Like it don't bother him? Not even a lil...? I mean... WTFFF... how do u have this beautiful, smart woman and not feel ways if she was grindin on a next dude?!. WOW... So now shes thinkin, ok dancing is one thing...but it MAY lead to other things. & he says ... sure it can but im not single so its a one two dance n then i never see the person aagain. Haveen't u danced with a dude a never saw him again?(YES-sure i have- BUT STILL --NEVER IN A RELATIONSHIP) ARRGHH she dosent know what to do--- she wants to be with him, give him his space n let him do his thing.... but is jelous... she dosent wanna share her man (in anyway) & why should she...eventually I have a feelin she aint gonna be havin it anymore... cuz the deeper u get into any relationship there are boundries set to not hurt or disrespect one another. & i feel if two ppl are in a relationship they shouldent be dancing on other ppl(among other things). I hope he will realize soon enough that compramise is very nessary to keep your partner happy. IT GOES BOTH WAYS PPL. DO TO YOUR LOVE, AS YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE DONE TO U.
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i think ur friend needs to fall back give this way to honest guy some space!! im all about honestly but if thats the case they should just have an open relationship cuz that wat it seems like hes having!!! absents makes the heart grow fonder!!! i am only speaking from experience!!! he realize what hes missing at home when its actually missing!!!
ReplyDeleteKiyyah of the *AF* girls
yeah .. she should let him have his space...and she too should go n have her "fun".. just not physically cheat or emotionally cheat.. n hope he stays true 2.
ReplyDeletefuck givin him space. i would dump his ass. first its a dance, then chillin and eventually fucking so tell ur girl to leave before he starts to test how much freedom he has
ReplyDeleteyeah she brought that up with him, but he was goin on how he has self control n he aint single. plus, he had the nerve to say if she danced on other guys she too was just as likely to cheat too. That's true but her nature aint as such. So basically... she told him one slip up-- that's its.. just one.. n its over.
ReplyDeletei personally dont think dancing with other ppl while ure in a relationship isnt that bad if it's just dancing. but the way the dude went about saying it came off as disrespectful and i wouldnt take it. in the early stages of my relationship, my boyfriend and i sat down and agreed upon what was expected in our relationship. he didnt expect me to agree with something just because he believed it. and thats what this dude did, he expected her to have the same mindset as him, and its not fair.
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