Fed Up

I have a friend who has made up excuses -upon excuses for her "man". They have been dating each other for a few months, talkin for a lil longer B4 dating -- basically they rushed into things. But of course things were great in the start & later in the sac..and baby girl wanted to give time to this relationship n see where it goes. Now ladies, when I said "man" in the beginning, I really ment BOY. Because this dudes st8 up BIG BOY tryin to be BIG MAN. ha! Had her fooled. But not us, not her girls. So a short outline of their relationship was: He lived an hour or so bus ride away, he hated talkin on the phone and wanted to just text. So she delt with the non often phone calls & Settled for textin her boo. At that time homegirl had her job down by his ways so see would see him often n spend tha night. But things with his famz n her didnt quite mesh at first cuz mamma luvd off his EX...n then things went really sour with her n his momz cuz she&he was loud.;) so0oo0o0oo0 now pass a few weeks in, momma dukes has a meltdown n kicks my girl out at 3 am. So now, after all this time her man still dosen't like to call her-- even thou she has told him a few times. So she keeps up with it cuz she really likes him ... n the sex is great :) So now my girl looses her job n is not wantin to go bak to his yawd cuz of the sticky situation. Her man NEVER ever came once down to her place--cuz he dosen't wanna.. like WTF is up with that. So he finially says he wants to come down n see his girl... he dosent show. He floped on her a few times giving her one excsuse aafter another. & for a min she would let them slide.. Till today..he was saposed to come down ..again but this time dosent call or return calls bak to let her know if he is still commming. Dude dosen't answer when she calls... and has not yet. At first she was mad, but really she just wantes to know if he is ok.. I could care less... he is a dumb cunt. DUDE ST8 UP DITCHED HIS GF today..AGAIN. So she FINIALLY realized-- no woman who is real n st8 up with a dude needs to be dissrespected and misstreated in this way. She was better off being single... seemd more happier too. This guy played with her honesty, and cuz she liked him she gave him the benifit of the doubt. She felt he was cheating, & when she asked him... he denied it..& with no real proof she felt she owed it to believe him. But when a man can't make his woman a PRIORITY HE HAS NO RIGHT STRINGING HER ALONG. So I told her, hun, why is he a priority, when you are nothing but an option?. & she had enough. I feel she will be strong to cut this goof boy outta her life cuz baby girl is tooo amazing and deserves A LOT better. She deserves a MAN & not a boy who thinks he can.
.arrrghhh.....boys! good riddance.