Word to the Wise

in this day and age us women have to smarten up. Is it just me or do women rush into things these days. Especially sex. I mean, you meet a guy and you like him fair enough. But do not fuck him on the first date.. better yet, why not wait until he shows you some honesty, realness, and respect. All that sweet talk in the beginning is jsut to get into your pants, and hell if you let him get the goddies that quick, then why bother? The dude will laugh and see you as an easy lay. There is no respect or integraty in that. You gotta learn how to play them at their own game. BUT dont get it twisted, im all for being st8up, but you can't make it so easy for them. *hint* THEY LIKE A CHALLANGE. But you don't want to be a prude either. Give a lil, but ALWAYS keep him guessing. That way he will take you seriouslly, respect, and he will always be back for more. When yall do knock boots, 'haaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyy ;)' Take it from me, it will be "WELL WOTH THE WAIT." Time builds excitement, anticipation, and makes the bond grow.